My Dog.gy and Me: Tails in Time and Space

What a contradiction of past, present and future is the human being. When the past is the present, we go about living as if the future is an endless horizon of possibilities, while wallowing in the moment to extract every ounce of selfish pleasure we can extract. When the present is the present, we savor the sweetness from the past and long for what has long since been gone. We cherish the thought of recreating what has been lost, to touch what doesn't exist anymore, and to amend those broken and sad moments that, in later age, we realize we tarnished because we were too selfish, too stupid, too near-sighted.

Oh, to go back, to live again in our youth, to correct those moments that can never be washed from our memories. To seize all the lost possibilities. To hug our parents and say we love them. To savor the sweetness of life that we took all too much for granted when the future seemed both far off and endless.

When the future is the present….

If you're lucky, you may get lost in time and space.

Prelude: A Nose for the Truth

My wife came home and found me crawling around on all fours in the backyard, snipping the grass and the plants and whatever else was out there. That was pretty much the end of our relationship.

"Honey, what on earth are you doing?"

"I'm trying to discover what it is that dogs find so exciting when they sniff everything in their way."

My three dogs — natch — were out back with me, and doing a much better job of unearthing the truth of, well, the earth around us.

My wife hung in there for a few more months, but she concluded from that day on that I loved my dogs more than her and eventually left me and my constant companions Girl, Buddy and Little Guy to fend for ourselves.

Which left me pretty much back where I started decades before.

In the summer of 1968.

Come with me to those long-ago days of youth, or should I say come with us?

Come enjoy our tails in time and space.